Dissection of the Phony: Pt. 2

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2. The phony will interact with other people differently than you--- The phony isn't perfect. When their friends or relatives are about, they will treat them more genuinely. probably not the absolute best, but you will see a different side to them. Then they will walk up to you, and treat you the same as they did before. This tool is kinda like taking a tape measure and comparing it to another tape measure to make sure it's accurate. Another bizarre but beneficial behavior is that when their mate or closest confidant is around they will slip.... And the truth will pop out. Ever have this happen to you? I'd like to hear some stories. The phony may be trying too hard to mimic you and your behavior. This can be pretty hard to spot, but ties into Pt. 1 where they use words that make you sound great great great and are riveted to every last word you say. Someone who is genuine might like some of what you say and disagree with some. On the same line, if you can get a rise out of a suspected phony they will have an emotional response and let their facade fall. Maybe a little. Over the long haul, the phony will lower their guard until before you know it they are treating you bad and your just sitting there taking it. It was sooo gradual you didn't notice. Cont...